Mainstream vs. Natural
When I began motherhood, I was a typical mainstream mother. After hearing about the practices of natural motherhood, I could tell the difference. Becoming a natural Mom oftentimes leads to a total lifestyle change. If you're considering natural motherhood, these may be some changes you find yourself making.
A mainstream Mom usually goes to the hospital she thinks is the best to have her baby A natural Mom usually stays home, goes to a birth center or has a nurse/midwife present with her in the hospital to have her babyA mainstream Mom chooses the best public or private school to educate her children A natural Mom chooses to take full responsibility to educate her children herself A mainstream Mom shops at the local grocery store A natural Mom tries to buy from local farmers or buys organicand checks ingredient labels very closely A mainstream Mom buys the best crib for her baby to sleep in A natural Mom looks forward to the bonding that occurs when baby sleeps with her (either in the room or in the same bed) A mainstream Mom buys the best stroller on the market A natural Mom shops for (or makes her own) baby carriers A mainstream Mom seeks out the best OB/GYN she can find based on credentials and referrals A natural Mom uses referrals or her own research to seek out a midwife/doula that she "clicks" with or prepares to have no professional help whatsoever A mainstream Mom listens to her pediatrician and takes her child to get all their vaccinations A natural Mom researches what is in those vaccinations and makes the decision to NOT vaccinate her child or vaccinate selectively A mainstream Mom usually has no idea of or desire to search out alternatives for birth A natural Mom makes SURE she researches all her options thoroughly and makes her decision based on that research A mainstream Mom has no idea what a doula is or desire for her services (I know I didn't when I was a mainstream Mom) A natural Mom thinks a doula may be a wonderful addition to her birthing experience A mainstream Mom would NEVER think of co-sleeping (she's heard how dangerous it is) A natural Mom knows that co-sleeping can be done safely and has many benefits (she looks forward to sharing her room/bed with her baby) A mainstream Mom takes any drug available to eradicate adverse symptoms (headaches, backaches, etc.) A natural Mom seeks out herbs or foods to rectify the core root of the problem causing the symptoms A mainstream Mom doesn’t think twice about where the food in the grocery store comes from (I NEVER did) A natural Mom makes SURE she knows where grocery food comes from A mainstream Mom has no clue about the benefits of composting for a garden A natural Mom knows the value of “black gold” and desires to maintain her own compost pile A mainstream Mom doesn’t think twice about using disposable diapers A natural Mom doesn’t think twice about using cloth diapers or choosing to practice elimination communication A mainstream Mom generally parents free from ridicule A natural Mom oftentimes has to endure social ridicule to practice what she believes is best for her family
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